Ever feel like you're doing everything — growing a business, raising a family, building a personal brand — and still wondering if it's clicking?

In this week’s episode of Make It You, Tannya chats with PR maven and mom of four, Cris Gordon, on how to stay true to yourself while building big things.

From career to kids to closets, here’s how she keeps it real and aligned.

1. Influence Isn’t About Followers

Big names don’t guarantee connection. Real impact comes from alignment.
→ Action: Work with people who believe in your brand, not just those with a following.

2. Know the Goal of Every Campaign

PR? Sales? Awareness? Not every launch is about conversions.
→ Action: Build your strategy around your real goals.

3. Use the “Do, Don’t, Delegate” Rule

No one balances it all, but systems help.
→ Action: List what only you can do, what to cut, and what to delegate. Repeat often.

4. Your Mission = Your Filter

Cris says yes based on alignment, not obligation.
→ Action: Get clear on your mission. Let it guide your decisions.

5. Motherhood Made Her Stronger

Cris hid her first pregnancy. Now she owns it as her superpower.
→ Action: Don’t dim your light. Life changes can expand you, not shrink you.

6. Style Reflects Your Season

After years of “survival mode,” Cris re-embraced her bold, boss style.
→ Action: Let your style evolve with you. It’s a form of power and presence.

FAQ's

Q: How do I find my personal style when my life has changed so much?

A: Start by aligning your wardrobe with your current season, not your past. Focus on how you want to show up today, whether that is as a business owner, mother, or both. Edit out pieces that no longer reflect you and rebuild with intention. Your style should support your daily reality, not who you used to be.

Q: Can my style evolve without completely replacing my wardrobe?

A: Yes, style evolution is about refinement, not replacement. You can update your look by removing pieces that feel outdated and adding a few intentional items that reflect who you are now. Even small changes, like shifting silhouettes or colors, can bring your wardrobe back into alignment.

Q: What does it mean for your wardrobe to be aligned with your life?

A: An aligned wardrobe reflects your priorities, lifestyle, and identity. If you are building a business, raising children, or stepping into a new role, your clothing should support those demands. Alignment means your wardrobe feels natural, functional, and expressive at the same time.

Q: How can I balance motherhood and personal style without feeling overwhelmed?

A: Use simple systems like the “do, don’t, delegate” approach. Decide what parts of your wardrobe need your attention, what you can simplify, and what you can outsource. This keeps your style manageable while still allowing you to show up with confidence.

Q: Is it normal to lose your sense of style after becoming a mom?

A: Yes, it is very common. Many women shift into survival mode and put personal style on pause. The key is recognizing that this phase is temporary, and your style can evolve into something even stronger and more reflective of who you are now.

Q: How does personal style impact confidence in business?

A: Personal style reinforces how you present yourself and how others perceive you. When your wardrobe reflects clarity and alignment, it becomes easier to show up with authority and confidence. Style is not about trends, it is about consistency in how you express your identity.

Q: Do I need a large wardrobe to feel put together every day?

A: No, a well-edited wardrobe is more effective than a large one. Having fewer, intentional pieces that work together makes daily dressing easier and more consistent. Clarity in your wardrobe often leads to more confidence than excess.

Q: What is the difference between following trends and having personal style?

A: Trends are external and constantly changing, while personal style is internal and consistent. Following trends can feel disconnected if they do not align with your identity. Personal style focuses on what feels authentic and supports your life, regardless of what is popular.

What to Do Next

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