How to get up again after a “failure.”

This is one of my favorite topics because life doesn’t always go as planned. I’ve fallen down hard, like I literally had to start my life over again four times since age 18. It’s never easy, but there’s so much to unpack in our journey to help us build resilience and get to the next place we want for ourselves during this time.

My friend and guest today, Bianca Jean, is an international dancer and choreographer turned life coach! Bianca helps women to trust themselves and their decision-making to unleash their inner badass and ignite their passions to live a life of fulfillment. When they feel called to more, she teaches them how to follow their intuition to get unstuck, get up after a failure, and create the life of their dreams.

What makes her coaching different is she dives in deep. Her training includes several methodologies and modalities for healing to break through limiting beliefs and stories of doubt.

In the last 10 years, Bianca has created a formula to get clear on what you want and how to get it. This process was used to go on a world tour and corporate companies to see their vision and achieve it.

Thank you for hanging out with me on the Podcast and my Lifestyled Series! Let me know what resonated with you the most in the comments!

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FAQ's

Q: How do you rebuild your life after a major failure?

A: Rebuilding your life starts with accepting that setbacks are part of growth, not proof that you failed permanently. Both Tannya and Bianca Jean speak about starting over multiple times and learning resilience through those experiences. Reflection, self-trust, and small consistent actions often create the foundation for rebuilding confidence again.

Q: Why do setbacks sometimes lead to personal growth?

A: Difficult seasons often force clarity about what is no longer working. Experiences like career shifts, failed plans, or starting over can help people become more intentional about their goals and values. Many women discover stronger self-trust after moving through uncertainty instead of avoiding it.

Q: How can I trust myself again after making a bad decision?

A: Trusting yourself again usually begins by recognizing that one decision does not define your future. Bianca Jean focuses on helping women strengthen their intuition and decision-making skills so they feel less stuck. Building self-trust often happens through practice, reflection, and taking action even when confidence feels low.

Q: What helps people bounce back emotionally after failure?

A: Emotional resilience often comes from processing what happened instead of pretending it did not affect you. Supportive conversations, self-reflection, coaching, and giving yourself permission to start over can help rebuild emotional stability. Many people become stronger after failure because they learn how to move forward without needing everything to feel perfect first.

Q: Is life coaching helpful after a major life transition?

A: Life coaching can provide structure and support during periods of uncertainty or change. Bianca Jean combines several healing methodologies to help women work through limiting beliefs and self-doubt. Coaching can help clarify goals, strengthen confidence, and create momentum after feeling stuck.

Q: What is the difference between confidence and self-trust?

A: Confidence is often tied to how capable you feel in a moment, while self-trust is the belief that you can handle challenges even when things are uncertain. Someone may lose confidence after failure but still rebuild their life by strengthening self-trust. Learning to trust your intuition can create more stability than relying on external validation alone.

Q: Can starting over multiple times actually make you stronger?

A: Yes, starting over repeatedly can strengthen resilience and adaptability over time. Tannya shares that she has had to restart her life four times since age 18, and those experiences shaped how she approaches challenges today. People who rebuild after setbacks often develop deeper clarity about what truly matters to them.

Q: Where can I listen to personal growth podcasts for women?

A: Personal growth podcasts hosted by women often cover topics like confidence, career transitions, mindset, and resilience. The Closet Edit podcast combines conversations around style, personal growth, and life experiences to help women feel more aligned with who they are becoming. Podcast episodes are also helpful for women seeking encouragement during periods of change.