Have you ever felt like you’re constantly doing but not really aligning with your true self? You’re not alone. In my latest episode of the Make It You Podcast, I sat down with executive coach Gaby Montano to talk about what it really takes to live and lead with intention—especially when you’re juggling work, family, and your own growth.

Here are some of the most powerful lessons from our conversation:

1. Balance Doesn’t Mean Doing Everything

“It’s all about balance. You have to make sure that you’re being intentional with your decisions so you can truly focus on what matters most.” — Gaby Montano

Many women wear multiple hats—mom, entrepreneur, partner, friend. Gaby reminds us that balance isn’t about perfection or doing it all at once. It’s about making choices that align with what matters most to you right now.

2. Success Is About Alignment, Not Just Achievement

“Success is not about doing more. It’s about being intentional with your choices and aligning them with your values.”

It’s easy to chase milestones and external validation, but Gaby encourages a shift in focus: align your actions with your values and your vision, and let that define your success.

3. The Power of Saying No

“Learning to say no is one of the most powerful tools I’ve used in my career.”

We often feel pressure to say yes to everything—but that’s a fast track to burnout. Gaby shared how learning to confidently say no to the things that didn’t align with her goals created space for what actually mattered.

4. Personal Style = Personal Power

“When I show up authentically, both in my personal style and mindset, I feel more confident and capable.”

Your wardrobe isn’t just about clothes—it’s about how you show up. Gaby talked about the transformation she felt when her style aligned with her inner growth. When you feel good in what you wear, you carry yourself differently.

5. Small Habits Make a Big Impact

“Taking the time to plan my week sets me up for success.”

A game-changing habit Gaby swears by? Taking 20–30 minutes on Sundays to plan the week. It keeps her focused, grounded, and intentional with her time—without the overwhelm.

6. Stay Connected to Your True Self

“Don’t be afraid to check in with yourself. What’s important to you today might change tomorrow—and that’s okay.”

Gaby closed with a reminder that alignment is an ongoing practice. Life shifts—and your goals might too. Regular self-reflection helps you stay true to your values as you grow and evolve.

✨ Check out Gaby’s Instagram Reel for a sneak peek into her styling transformation:

In our style session, I helped Gaby take her gorgeous matching set from "only wear together" to "endless outfit possibilities!" 🙌 By pairing the pieces with other items she already had, we created so many more options that fit her lifestyle.

Watch it here!

Ready to Align Your Life and Career with Your True Self?

It’s time to start making intentional decisions that align with your goals, values, and passions. By reflecting on what matters most and being conscious of how you’re showing up in the world, you can create a more balanced, fulfilling life.

🎧 Listen to the full podcast episode with Gaby Montano here for more insights into how you can step into your power and take intentional action.

👉 Need support aligning your personal and professional life? Book a consultation with me today to get personalized guidance on aligning your career and personal life with your true self here.
How Do You Stay Aligned With Your Goals?

💬 I’d love to hear from you! What’s one habit or practice you’ve incorporated into your life that helps you stay aligned with your values and goals? Leave a comment below, and share this post with anyone who could benefit from this insight!

Connect with Gaby Montano

Stay inspired and connected with Gaby’s insights and coaching tips on her Instagram pages:
✨ @gabymontanomx
✨ @powerofwomanmx

FAQ's

Q: How do I align my personal style with who I am today?

A: Start by getting clear on what matters most to you right now, not who you used to be. When your wardrobe reflects your current priorities and lifestyle, getting dressed becomes easier and more intentional. Alignment comes from choosing pieces that support how you want to show up, not just what looks good on others.

Q: What does it mean to be aligned in your career and personal life?

A: Alignment means your daily decisions reflect your values, priorities, and long-term vision. Instead of chasing external milestones, you focus on what feels true and sustainable. This often leads to more clarity, less overwhelm, and a stronger sense of confidence in both work and life.

Q: Is balance really possible when you have a busy life?

A: Balance is not about doing everything at once. It is about being intentional with where your time and energy go. When you focus on what matters most in a given season, you create a version of balance that actually feels realistic and supportive.

Q: How does personal style impact confidence?

A: Personal style directly affects how you carry yourself. When your clothing reflects your identity and growth, you naturally feel more confident and capable. This shift is not about trends, it is about showing up in a way that feels authentic and aligned with who you are.

Q: Why is saying no important for alignment?

A: Saying no creates space for what actually matters. When you say yes to everything, your time and energy become scattered. Clear boundaries help you stay focused on your goals and prevent burnout, which is essential for long-term alignment.

Q: What are simple habits that help you stay aligned?

A: Weekly planning is one of the most effective habits for staying aligned. Taking 20 to 30 minutes to map out your priorities helps you stay focused and intentional. Small, consistent actions like this reduce overwhelm and improve clarity throughout the week.

Q: Can your goals and values change over time?

A: Yes, and that is completely normal. What matters to you today may shift as your life evolves. Regular self-check-ins help you stay connected to your current priorities so your decisions continue to reflect who you are becoming.

Q: Do I need a full wardrobe overhaul to feel more aligned?

A: No, you do not need to start from scratch. Small changes, like restyling pieces you already own, can create more flexibility and ease in your wardrobe. Alignment often comes from using what you have more intentionally rather than constantly adding more.