Who Are You on the Other Side? Style, Identity, and the Power of Life Transitions

Who Are You on the Other Side? Style, Identity, and the Power of Life Transitions

June 24, 20252 min read

Have you ever paused mid-conversation, mid-chapter of life, and thought, “Wait, who am I becoming?

That’s exactly what happened during a recent weekend getaway to a dreamy, secluded wedding on the Washington coast. Picture long beach walks, cozy fireside chats, and deep, soul-stirring conversations. The kind of weekend where you leave with new friends and even newer perspectives. 

As a personal stylist for men and women in Seattle, I help people navigate those moments by aligning their outer style with their inner shifts.

Here’s what that really looks like:


1. From Scrubs to Self-Expression

The Midwife Turned Student

She spent years in scrubs, always on call. Now? She’s back in school and asking, “How do I show up now?”

Takeaway:
➡ Evolve your style without erasing your past. Start small. Aim for clarity, not reinvention.
➡ Choose pieces that reflect who you're becoming—confident, calm, redefined.

💡 Style isn’t a full makeover—it’s a recalibration.


2. From City Chic to Country Ease

The Bold Woman Who Missed Herself

She moved from the city to a riverside home—and lost touch with her bold, feminine side.

Takeaway:
➡ Just because your life is simpler doesn’t mean your style has to be muted.
➡ If a bold dress makes you feel like
you again—wear it. Even if no one else sees it.

💡 You don’t need a reason to feel radiant. Do it for yourself.


3. Motherhood, Magic & the Mirror

The Toddler Mom Reclaiming Her Spark

Two years into motherhood, she felt like she lost her style confidence. One vibrant outfit changed everything.

Takeaway:
➡ Your body, life, and priorities shift—but your style can still feel fun, easy, and yours.
➡ Dressing up can reconnect you to your power.

💡 Style isn’t vanity—it’s visibility. For you.


Here's the truth:

  • You don’t have to have it all figured out.

  • You don’t have to reinvent yourself overnight.

But you can start small, take the next right step, and make your style a reflection of who you are becoming.

And remember: it’s okay to be seen. It’s okay to be bold. It’s okay to ask for help.

Ready to explore who you are on the other side? Let’s connect!

🎧 Listen to this inspiring podcast episode

👗 Book your style consultation today

Let’s talk through where you are and where you're going—because your style can support every version of you.

See you on the other side. 💛


xo,

Stylist
👠CEO of @thecloset.edit
✨Helping you build polished outfits for work & life
⚡️Update your wardrobe with ease + efficiency
🎤 ‘Make it You’ Pod Host

Tannya Bernadette

Stylist 👠CEO of @thecloset.edit ✨Helping you build polished outfits for work & life ⚡️Update your wardrobe with ease + efficiency 🎤 ‘Make it You’ Pod Host

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