How to Let Go of Clothes That No Longer Fit
I’m taking a different approach to how I’m evaluating the new year. Instead of focusing on my goals for 2024 first, I’m actually first focusing on what I don’t want. If you’re in the same place of planning your year, I encourage you to take time and write down noteworthy moments from last year, things you want to let go of, and lessons learned. Listing those first lays a foundation for discovering areas of focus and outlining goals for growth.
These lessons can be in how you spend your money, your time, the way you work, who you spend time with, or what you consume. Aim to write down the 5 top lessons that come to mind and if more flow out on the paper, keep going! It’s therapeutic because it does create a fresh start mentality. I literally woke up on January 1st and it felt like a whole new beginning. I’m so excited for this year!
When it comes to shopping and your personal style, here’s a list of five things I encourage you let go of in 2024:
Dressing to fit in
Wearing restricting clothing
Buying too many things you don’t need
Shopping for items that only feel “ok”
Wearing clothing that doesn’t fit well anymore
I often feel like I can’t rewear my clothing, so I’m personally letting go of that in 2024. There’s pressure being on camera and there seems to be this rule that to make content, you can’t rewear pieces. That’s so impractical. Continually buying new clothes is not only a huge cost, it’s also time consuming to find the right pieces. So this year, I’m letting go of feeling like I need new things to show up on camera. I’d rather show up for you, be helpful and give you all the knowledge I know, than feel like I have to continually surprise you with something new.
This is something a lot of us on video struggle with and I’m ready to release that and feel comfortable wearing my clothes. I love the things I buy and have no problem with it.
In my personal life, I am letting go of feeling like I need to accomplish everything in the morning. There’s so much talk about the magic morning routine, but as a mom it just doesn’t work out that way. Instead of beating myself up everytime I plan to go to the gym early, or try to get to a client before 11 am, or finish a project with my team, I’ve already redone my schedule to start later. I’m reorganizing my day to prioritize time for the mom thing and not rush my daughter or myself in the process.
What are you letting go of in 2024?
If you are ready to change the way you shop and refresh your wardrobe with something new, I have an amazing opportunity to get monthly support through Curated Closet Collective. Every month you get a set of shopping boards catered to a comfortable, casual, yet elevated, style. If you find it hard to figure out new brands, styles, or colors to wear, these boards can be your inspiration! Or you can just click the photos and buy everything you like. I personally curate them and you know I don’t work with any brand or store, so I share anything and everything that clients have loved in our time one-on-one and YOU get access to them.
Go to https://myclosetedit.com/curated-closet-collective to learn more.
xo,
FAQ's
Q: How do I let go of clothes that no longer fit me?
A: Start by focusing on how you want to feel instead of the size on the tag. Clothing that no longer fits your body or lifestyle often creates frustration every time you get dressed. Keeping pieces that work for your life today makes your closet feel lighter, more functional, and easier to wear consistently.
Q: Why do I keep buying clothes I never wear?
A: Many women buy clothing because it feels “good enough” in the moment instead of truly aligned with their style and daily life. Buying too many pieces that only feel okay often leads to closets full of unworn items. Slowing down and being more intentional with purchases helps reduce waste and decision fatigue.
Q: Is it okay to rewear outfits if I post online or work on camera?
A: Yes, rewearing outfits is practical, sustainable, and more realistic for everyday life. The pressure to constantly wear something new on camera can create unnecessary spending and stress. Wearing pieces you genuinely love often builds a stronger personal style than constantly chasing new clothing.
Q: How can I shop less but still feel stylish?
A: Shopping less starts with buying pieces you genuinely enjoy wearing repeatedly. Choosing clothing that fits well and reflects your real lifestyle creates more outfit possibilities with fewer items. A thoughtful wardrobe usually feels more elevated than one filled with impulse purchases.
Q: What are signs my wardrobe no longer reflects my life?
A: Your wardrobe may no longer fit your life if getting dressed feels frustrating, rushed, or disconnected from who you are today. Major life changes like motherhood, career shifts, or schedule changes often require a new approach to style. Clothing should support your routine, not make it harder.
Q: Should I stop buying clothes that only feel “okay”?
A: Yes, settling for clothing that only feels okay often leads to clutter and dissatisfaction. If a piece does not fit comfortably, work with your lifestyle, or make you feel confident, it usually stays unworn. A smaller wardrobe filled with pieces you truly enjoy creates more ease when getting dressed.
Q: How do I create a wardrobe that feels more intentional?
A: An intentional wardrobe starts with understanding your actual lifestyle and daily needs. Instead of shopping for fantasy versions of yourself, focus on clothing that supports your work, family life, comfort, and confidence. Rewearing favorite pieces and buying less frequently can help create a wardrobe with more longevity.
Q: Can a personal stylist help me rebuild my wardrobe after a life change?
A: A personal stylist can help identify what no longer works and create a wardrobe that reflects your current season of life. Many women seek styling support after becoming a mom, changing careers, or feeling disconnected from their clothing. Virtual styling services also make support accessible outside Seattle and Bellevue.
