Why dressing to “fit in” could be holding you back and how to elevate your style with ease.

Have you ever been invited to a celebration—a wedding, a concert, a big work event—and opened your closet only to think: “Ugh, I have nothing to wear”?

You're not alone. And you’re definitely not the only one who’s panic-shopped last minute, worn something that didn’t feel quite right, and then avoided every photo from that night.

I see this happen all the time with clients. And here’s the good news: You don’t have to wait until you're overwhelmed or underdressed to shift how you feel in your clothes.

Let the Celebration Be Your Style Catalyst

Why dressing to “fit in” could be holding you back and how to elevate your style with ease.

You want to look polished, but not over the top. Approachable, but still professional. True to yourself, but a little more elevated.

This balance is something we hear all the time from clients, especially those in leadership or public-facing roles. And here’s the truth: toning yourself down to be relatable often means blending in.

In the latest episode of the Make It You podcast, Tannya shares real stories from clients navigating this exact tension and how intentional style choices helped them feel more confident and aligned.

✨ Key Takeaways

1. Don’t Dim to Fit In
People are drawn to confidence. Trying to “blend in” often means people won’t remember you.

2. You Can Look Elevated and Approachable
Whether you’re a business owner, in tech, or in beauty, your outfit sets the tone before you speak. Use it to connect.

3. Upgrade, Don’t Overhaul
Even one elevated piece (a blazer, shoe, or texture) can shift how you show up without changing who you are.

🔥 Quick Style Tips

• Balance bold with basics

• Choose texture over prints

• Invest in quality basics

• Add one signature detail

• Ask: Is this “too much” or just the future me?
  

🎧 Listen to the Full Episode

Hear client stories and simple strategies to show up as your most aligned self.

 👉 Listen to “How to Look Relatable While Standing Out”

👗 Ready to Elevate Your Style?

Whether you want a full refresh or a few intentional pieces, we’ve got you.

📞 Book a free consultation to talk about your goals
💬 DM Tannya on Instagram @thecloset.edit

You can be relatable and still shine.

Let’s make your style work for you.